Success Éxito
What is Success? How do you get there? Success entails a great deal of effort. I often define it in dichotomous terms of being a Victim or a Victor, but I’m wrong. There’s a lot of gray in between.
Success is a careful dance of listening and taking the bull by the horns and acting. There is a constant need to be willing to learn and supplant personal perspectives with new ideas. It requires flexibility in thinking. I find myself sitting here smiling as I think of Deb 🐝 Helfrich's and Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee's posts—two of the most flexible minds I have had the pleasure to experience on beBee.
There is a psychology to Success. I’m smiling again. A jump-up-and-down, screaming, “Yes” post was Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee's: https://www.bebee.com/producer/@juan-imaz/the-importance-of-flexibility-and-empathy-in-business What insight! What a distinct understanding of psychology in business!
Cream floats to the top. Those that are too rigid in their beliefs will never see the top, or if they do, the rise will be short-lived. Cream often brings with it a few stragglers clinging to success like the drowning. John White, MBA's post: https://www.bebee.com/producer/@john-white/to-be-successful-get-rid-of-the-losers-in-your-life is good advice.
Success is based on choices we make, and if we stray—Poof. Once the behaviors conducive to Success are established,
you must not stray. Old habits are hard to let go of and reemerge at times. Tamping down those impulses are a necessity.I often find myself dropping into a near-meditative state when I’m carefully listening. Listening can become a pleasant state of affairs. If I cannot achieve this, I am not really listening, and ideas bounce off me like raindrops on an oily surface. It’s my loss when that happens. It’s not very successful.
We all have a framework to our personalities. It is those that surpass those frameworks that will be most successful. Frameworks limit us and destroy opportunity. Those of us who get stuck in the ruts of our frameworks will never truly succeed.
They’ll be hanging on to the cream.
en español
Éxito
¿Qué es el éxito? ¿Cómo se llega allí? El éxito implica un gran esfuerzo. A menudo lo definen en términos dicotómicos de ser una Víctima o un Víctor, pero estoy equivocado. Hay un montón de gris en el medio.
El éxito es una danza cuidadosa de escuchar y tomar el toro por los cuernos y la actuación. Hay una constante necesidad de estar dispuestos a aprender y suplantar perspectivas personales con nuevas ideas. Requiere flexibilidad en el pensamiento. Me encuentro sentado aquí sonriendo mientras pienso en los mensajes de Juan Imaz y Ali 🐝 Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee-dos de las mentes más flexibles que he tenido el placer de experimentar en beBee. Tal vez aquellos de ustedes que hablan español fluido pueden transmitir los nombres de maravillas españolas.
Hay una psicología para el Éxito. Estoy sonriendo otra vez. Un salto-up-and-down, gritando, "Sí" post fue John White, MBA: https://www.bebee.com/producer/@juan-imaz/la-importancia-de-la-flexibilidad-y-empatia-en-los-negocios. ¿Qué insight! ¡Qué distinta comprensión de la psicología en los negocios!
Crema flota en la parte superior. Los que son demasiado rígidos en sus creencias nunca verá la parte superior, o si lo hacen, el aumento será de corta duración. Crema a menudo trae consigo unos cuantos rezagados aferrados al éxito como el ahogamiento. El post de John White, MBA: https://www.bebee.com/producer/@john-white/to-be-successful-get-rid-of-the-losers-in-your-life es un buen consejo.
El éxito se basa en las elecciones que hacemos, y si nos desviamos-Poof. Una vez que los comportamientos conducentes al éxito se establecen, no debe perderse. Los viejos hábitos son difíciles de dejar ir y resurgir a veces. Tamping abajo de esos impulsos son una necesidad.A menudo me encuentro caer en un estado casi meditativo cuando estoy escuchando atentamente. Escuchar puede convertirse en un agradable estado de cosas. Si no puedo lograr esto, no estoy realmente escuchando, y las ideas rebotan de mí como gotas de lluvia sobre una superficie aceitosa. Es mi pérdida cuando eso sucede. No tiene mucho éxito.
Todos tenemos un marco para nuestras personalidades. Son los que superan los marcos que serán más exitosos. Los marcos nos limitan y destruyen la oportunidad. Aquellos de nosotros que se quedan atrapados en las imperfecciones de nuestros marcos nunca lograrán realmente.
Ellos estarán pendientes de la crema.
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Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
6 years ago #22
So nice to see you, Devesh \ud83d\udc1d Bhatt. I've missed your comments. Good luck in your endeavors and thank you.
Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
6 years ago #21
Thank you, Franci\ud83d\udc1dEugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador
Devesh 🐝 Bhatt
6 years ago #20
Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
6 years ago #19
Thank you, Simone Luise Hardt
Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
6 years ago #18
#9 Thank you for your perspectives.
Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
6 years ago #17
👍 🎯 to you, too, CityVP \ud83d\udc1d Manjit
Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
6 years ago #16
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Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
6 years ago #15
"I was lucky to get a glimpse of your listening state. You convinced me that even in a harsh, restrictive scenario, there are always choices, but we must be truly careful to not yet the framework of our immediate responses sentence us to the first answer we procure from our mind" I feel I could have listened "harder," Deb \ud83d\udc1d Helfrich
Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
6 years ago #14
So true, Harvey Lloyd
Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
6 years ago #13
Thank you, Tricia Mitchell
Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
6 years ago #12
Thank you, Lyon Brave
Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
6 years ago #11
It is a success, but perhaps an equal.
Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
6 years ago #10
Joyce 🐝 Bowen Brand Ambassador @ beBee
6 years ago #9
Harvey Lloyd
6 years ago #8
Success can be an outcome of interdependence, courage and discipline or a tormentor, even when we have arrived. Your comment was well stated and i enjoyed the view. I went through a period of understanding the word "enough". Without a personal understanding of "enough". Then success will always be elusive. This personal theory afforded me the brain space to achieve greater things outside of "success" as measured by society. In reading some of your thoughts i believe we each have come to the place that success is within humanity and not ourselves. My thoughts of "enough" enabled me to see the synergy within humanity and its ability to provide for my family. The sadness i see within many who search for success is the inability to describe what their arrival would look like. The constant view from inside out is changing and the definition of personal success changes with it. I loved your view where success is a blessing. From this view we can eliminate our judgement of success within others and focus on our own. Great thoughts here and thank you for taking the time to share such insight.
Ali Anani
6 years ago #7
CityVP Manjit
6 years ago #6
Harvey it is true as you say "No one can be successful like you can." The irony of defining success is sometimes we actual erase success. There is very clear definitions of success, such as a desire to emigrate to a particular country, fulfilling that desire is success. Then there is moving goal posts. A definition of success that is based on earning $2 milliion dollars so that one is on par with a neighbour who also earns the same, actually means we erase our success when we have only earned $1 million. In this case we have created a judgement about success, whereas counting a blessing is an appreciation of success. Thus what you say "no one can be successful like you can" really does begin with us. Once we cross the line into the world of judgements we begin to look down on the poor that are successful (living a meaningful life) and look up to the rich that are "unsuccessful" (living an anxious life trying to keep up appearances) much like a man who earned $1 million and feels that way. I am wary of success as a judgement but I am very welcoming of success as a blessing. Our world is built of the successful efforts of others and a well ordered and freedom cherishing society represents that.
Joel Anderson
6 years ago #5
Harvey Lloyd
6 years ago #4
Lyon Brave
6 years ago #3
Ali Anani
6 years ago #2
Mohammed Abdul Jawad
6 years ago #1