Fish and Trees
Does this resonate with you? Did you grow up as I did, hearing and believing that a smart personâââhowever that was determinedâââwould always succeed just because of those smarts? Did you also realize that it didnât always work that way, that many folks who were not âbookâ smart still got along very well in the world? Maybe even better than a few of those âsmartâ ones?
Did you also realize that someone with a high IQ did not have an ironclad guarantee of success? Did you finally see that one type of skill did not automatically lead to another type of skill? To this day, I can still hear my mom saying something like, âIf sheâs so smart, how come she canât . . . ?â To my mom, and to countless others like her, if you were smart, you were smart. In everything.
But there are so many ways to be smartâââand dumb!
I was reminded of this during a conversation today with tech support of GoDaddy. It appears I had a virus (or a Trojanâââwhatever that is) in my Outlook account, and lots of weird stuff was happening (e.g., 100+ bounce-backs of a message I never sent out). I got a great customer service support person, who deals with people like me every day (how do they stand it?). I admitted right up front that I was way out of my comfort zone and way above my pay grade. She very carefully walked me through the steps that she thought would clear things up. (So far, all seems to be OK.)
I was more grateful to her than I can say. I still automatically get worried when itâs a tech issue, worried that the techie will talk above my head and even worse, make me feel small and dumb. She did none of those thingsâââshe was wonderful!
I know Iâm smart in some ways, but the tech world is always just out of reach for me. I hang on by my fingernails some days, trying not to make a huge mess of anything. (Yes, I am one of those for whom the joke of âjust hit any keyâ was created.)
The lesson here is that we all have strengths and challenges. There are places where we shine, and places where we peer out from the darkness, hoping for a gentle and loving rescuerâââsomeone who wonât make us feel dumb because we canât figure something out by our âsmartâ selves.
I am grateful to those who are able to âclimb those treesâ and help out the rest of us who canât. Thank you for allowing us to ask the questions. Thank you for giving us answers and allowing us to still feel smart.
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Susan đ Rooks, The Grammar Goddess
7 years ago #7
OMG, I knew I liked you, Aaron Skogen, and now I have another reason to add to the list: you actually are OK asking for directions? That's awesome! Like you, I don't even want to be the smartest person in a room (not that I ever am, but it's the principle of the thing); I want to learn from others.
Susan đ Rooks, The Grammar Goddess
7 years ago #6
Deb \ud83d\udc1d Helfrich! Are you saying you're coming EAST? In June? YES. Absolutely. Let me know when, OK? I'll even rearrange some stuff if need be. And who knew we're alike with the smellability bit? I can't even enjoy magazines that have those perfume pages in them, not even after I rip the pages out. I don't buy much that has any kind of odor, either. (I think my nose makes up for my ears, though . . . )
Susan đ Rooks, The Grammar Goddess
7 years ago #5
Oh, yes -- Jim Saelzler! You're right with me. I was always taught that IQ was the whole shebang, but I learned over time that while it's a good measure of some intelligences, it's not the only one. SO many ways to be smart, capable, intelligent -- whatever word we want to use.
John Rylance
7 years ago #4
I think the ubiquitous phrase "one size fits all" springs to mind re your last paragraph. It rarely does suit everyone.
John Rylance
7 years ago #3
Harvey Lloyd
7 years ago #2
Susan đ Rooks, The Grammar Goddess
7 years ago #1