Fireside Chats: Milestones
Did you know that February is Spunky Old Broads month? I hadn't until two years ago when a friend -- Claire LeSage -- told me about it. I wrote a post on it -- Spunky Old Broads -- but that one wasn't about aging. This one is, and it's on my mind because my mother turned 100 February 7, 2017.
Happy 100th birthday, Marcia Rooks!
Think about that: 100! And while we might gripe about growing older, let's always remember that aging is a privilege denied to far too many.
What's the first milestone you remember? A birthday? What memories does that conjure up? Who celebrated with you?
For Jewish kids, 13 is a tremendous milestone, as it's the age Jewish children become adults (a Bar Mitzvah for a boy and a Bat Mitzvah for a girl) in the eyes of the religious community. The child, who has learned Hebrew in Hebrew school, reads a passage from the Torah (the sacred scroll) as part of the celebration, then begins to realize that early childhood has gone. In its place is that time of "neither:" neither a child nor an adult.
Many Latin cultures celebrate a girl's 15th birthday with a Quinceanera, a coming of age, although not all of them are called that exact name (see more here). The purpose is similar, however, marking a girl's transition from childhood to womanhood.
In the U.S., 16 is also a major milestone for many, as it's the age most states allow kids to get a driver's license and legally drive a car. At 18, many can legally drink and some can vote; at 21 everyone can legally vote.
What's funny is how much we -- as kids -- long for those milestones! We couldn't wait to turn 10, 13, 16, 18 -- or 21! Do you remember those days?
Then reality hits. We are so often done with milestones after 21, because turning 30 -- the first big one we might not be looking forward to -- comes up fast and hard. Oh boy. How can we possibly be 30? Weren't we just 16 last week?
All of those milestones made us who we are today. Each set us on a path we couldn't have seen clearly then, even if we had mapped it out, debated the pros and cons of action plans,or created a timeline of dates for accomplishments.
But here we are, and with luck, we will celebrate many more milestones in the coming years.
What do you remember as a standout milestone? What shaped you most clearly to become today's self?
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Susan 🐝 Rooks, The Grammar Goddess
7 years ago #14
Ah, the places we've been and the times we've lived through -- right, Franci\ud83d\udc1dEugenia Hoffman? And we're still kicking, so it's all good.
Susan 🐝 Rooks, The Grammar Goddess
7 years ago #13
Thanks so much, @Julio Angel Lopez Lopez!
Susan 🐝 Rooks, The Grammar Goddess
7 years ago #12
Thanks so much for the kind words, @Gloria Ochoa! Yes, in the last few years she has been sharing stories -- no Alzheimer's or dementia -- and it's fun to remember. And like you, 30 was my dreaded milestone, although many, many years before you. Thanks so much for taking the time to comment here!
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7 years ago #5
Joyce Bowen, time surely does move quickly, doesn't it? I clearly remember being 16, excited to go for my driver's license test (which I FAILED), looking forward to driving my dad's car. Of course, that didn't happen as planned . . .
Susan 🐝 Rooks, The Grammar Goddess
7 years ago #4
Sara Jacobovici, thanks for those kind words and for sharing my post! It's really hard to believe that my mother is 100 . . . her generation never expected to live much past 80, but here she is!
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