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Thursday Thoughts: Networking 1-2-3, Plus 1

Thursday Thoughts: Networking 1-2-3, Plus 1

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Everybody’s doing a brand new dance now – and I don’t mean The Locomotion. I mean Networking!

Networking has become such big business that it’s hard to keep up with all the possibilities. No matter where you live, you can attend many regularly scheduled networking events that we’re all familiar with such as Chambers of Commerce, Rotary, Lions Clubs – all about business but not structured too much — or BNI (Business Network International), which is very structured.

Then there are some really good local ones in southeastern Mass. and Rhode Island that just came to life a few years ago such as 4th Monday Networking (which I co-owned with Bob Salvas for a couple of years), 6 Degrees Networking, Women’s Business Network (WBN),  South Shore Women’s Business Network (SSWBN), and Mass. Professional Networking.

Business pros flock to these events, confident in their ability to SCORE big by finding great clients and contacts. They cheerfully pack their jacket pockets and/or briefcases with business cards, handouts, toys – all to attract people to themselves and persuade those people to BUY!

Sad to say, many go home time after time without having made a sale and finally quit networking, convinced it doesn’t work.

But it does if we know how to work it.

Here are three tips that can help you make the most of networking events.


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1. Put just your first name on your name badge – in BIG letters. Why? Well, as Scott Ginsberg (Hello! My Name is Scott) says, it makes you approachable. And isn’t that the reason you’re there? It’s easy for others say, “Hey, Susan! Great to see you!” Many people are uncomfortable at these events, so make it easy for everyone to address you. They will be ever so grateful.

I can hear you now: “But if I only put my first name on the badge, no one will know what I do!” Well, you could start a conversation, couldn’t you?

But the biggest reason for just your first name is that you do not want people leaning in THAT close to your body to read a business card on your chest or shoulder. Talk about invading your personal space . . .


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2. Leave your business cards at home. Seriously. Leave. Them. At. Home. Why? As a very smart networker named Phil Gaeber told me – time and time again – if you take all those cards, you’ll be focused on getting rid of them, not making any meaningful conversations with anyone. It'll be all about YOU. And your card will likely end up where so many others go to die... in someone else’s wastebasket.

He suggested that we collect cards, talk to others about THEIR business, and focus on helping those people make great connections. It makes us stand out from most of the others at any event. And of course we make an even stronger impression when we follow up with an e-mail that has our contact info in our signature. (You do, don't you?)


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3. Be a connector. Once you’ve talked with someone for a few minutes, figure out who else this person should meet. There may be someone at the event you know would be a great contact, or perhaps you know someone else you can contact on that person’s behalf later. When you create a connection between two people, they remember.

And here’s the “Plus 1,” an idea that I learned from Dr. Ivan Misner, founder of BNI, an organization I was a part of (as a member and director) for over 10 years:


Networking is about farming, not hunting. Plant seeds, nurture them, and you’ll reap the harvest.

I wrote this in February 2015, but I think it's even more necessary today due to the phenomenal rise of social media. Many of us have forgotten how to act with real, live people, and it's costing us lost sales and clients.

Sarah Elkins figured that out last year, creating the first annual No Longer Virtual (NLV) event, held in February 2017, for many of us connected on social media. It was marvelous to finally meet others whom we'd only written to or maybe talked with!

Are you a successful networker? Do you have a tip to help others?

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#1
And that amazes me, Paul \! I can't remember a time when you weren't here on social media! It seems as though I've been learning from your posts since my first days on LI, and I started in December 2014.
#4
Absolutely, Aaron Skogen! It would be such a pleasure! Any way I can help, I will. I'll send you my landline number in a private message, OK?
#6
Heard about Hemingway Editor. I might try that, too. I'm such a creature of habit and loyalty. I find it hard to break from paths I have created for myself. I read Hemingway a bit, but his lack of commas irks me. Wonder, at times, how he got away with it. I remember the days when I tried what I thought were stylistic excursions only to come to the conclusion I was simply breaking the damn grammar rules.
#4
Grammarly, Aaron Skogen. Grammarly. Great aide. Picks up the most obvious and lets you make the decisions.

John Rylance

5 years ago #2

I like the third point. Currently we are having a great deal of work doing on the house we have just bought. All the decorators, electricians, plumbers, etc we are using have come as a result of talking to friends who recommend possible people who will do a good job, plus recommendations from tradesmen we trust as to who the use for parts of jobs they can't do i e electricians. Not a card, flyer, web site in sight. The power of word of mouth/ networking. Many of those we use and have used never after intial setup had to advertise to get business. What you can do, and are seen to do, are more likely to get you work, particularly when others "sing your praises"

Pascal Derrien

5 years ago #1

Hello Susan I am Pascal and I currently don't have a business card.... Nice one Susan \ud83d\udc1d Rooks :-)

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