Never Be Afraid To Be Your Authentic Self
So much is written about being your Authentic Self and I've always wondered just how many people are able to do this? Is it hard to write and be authentic at the same time? I feel being authentic means delving into a deeper side of yourself and allowing others to get to know you on a deeper level as well. I find it hard to write without sharing my personal stories. Stories allow others to really get to know us and some people aren't willing to take the risk. I was hesitant when it came to writing about my Anxiety and Panic disorder I suffer from. I worried that people would feel I was attention seeking (some did) but thankfully they were few. I gained a large following of people who also suffer, many who may not post openly on my buzzes (articles) but will send me a private message. I was surprised to find out just how many people suffer in silence because they are afraid of the stigma that can be attached to the term 'mental illness or disorder.' Forget the idea that the brain is highest functioning organ in our bodies, yet when it becomes ill, people are labeled instead of being embraced. At times, the idea of the stigma would deter me from writing but I decided the topic was very relevant and still needs a lot of attention because employers need to embrace their employees who suffer, just as they would embrace and have an understanding for the person who calls in sick or goes home early due to a migraine, the flu etc...
Remember one thing, you are NOT alone with the journey you are on and your path may take some unwanted twists and turns along the way. Feel free to wander from the path you are on, or just take a risk and continue down the same path- it may lead you in a direction you didn't expect. This is what happened to me!
I have a new Doctor and I've been meeting with him for almost a year now. He's young, progressive, into research and understands that Anxiety and Panic disorder is an illness not a weakness. He's taken the time to get to know me on a very personal level, he was able to look beyond my illness and that's how it should be. There are many people I associate with who have no idea I suffer from Anxiety and Panic disorder- sometimes you get that 'sixth sense,' when it comes to who you may share it with or NOT. I'm thankful to those who are able to see beyond my illness and realize I am not my illness.
My Doctor gave me renewed faith in the fact that many realize we are not our illnessMy doctor called me at home a few weeks ago and asked if I would be interested in serving on the Mental Health and Awareness Board of Directors for our County. Of course, I had a lot of questions and he set up a meeting with the Director of the Organization that he thought I would serve well. The meeting went fantastic and as a matter of fact, I was even offered a possible job that will be available in December or January. I was asked to send my resume along with a cover letter for both the Board of Directors and for employment.
Don't compare yourself to others when it comes to being authentic, that's what authenticity is all about, YOU!
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Prakashan B.V
5 years ago #47
Randall Burns
6 years ago #46
HaHa! Thanks for that Lisa \ud83d\udc1d Gallagher I couldn't ask for anything more. :-)
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #45
Thanks Randall Burns! I would put you in the category of being your authentic self! Authentic Chef w/big personality :)
Randall Burns
6 years ago #44
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #43
Thank you Debasish Majumder!
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #42
Thanks Pascal Derrien :)
Debasish Majumder
6 years ago #41
Pascal Derrien
6 years ago #40
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #39
Thanks so much Susan \ud83d\udc1d Rooks, the Grammar Goddess wrote about it yesterday or today and made some great points. For me, using the term authentic was blatant. I am who I am, and I can't hide it. As you saw after reading this, being true to who I am (authentic) has helped me in ways I could not predict.
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #38
Harvey Lloyd, you touched on great points. By writing about something so personal we do take a chance and it could ruin our brand. I finally came to the conclusion that I don't want to be associated with people who are unable to understand illnesses like Anxiety and Panic disorder... add depression to that equation. I guess we do have to be choosy when it comes to not only who we associate ourselves within the work environment but also friends and family as well. Just reading the words mental illness for some still have them concluding the person is either attention seeking, lazy, weak, or other. I'm happy there are many who have moved past those labels and understand the brain can become ill just like any organ in our body. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, I really appreciate it!
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #37
I wish there was a love button for your comment Susan \ud83d\udc1d Rooks, the Grammar Goddess! I didn't see the full impact of my statement about the brain until you quoted it, wow- I must admit, I had a few tears... but they were cleansing tears! I'm glad I'm not the only person who can't read their own writing the older I become ;-) I will have to read Jim's buzz too. We all have differing experiences in life and it's great to share. As I wrote Lada below, variety is (paraphrasing) is definitely the spice of life. We all learn or come to understand life more though a variety of topics. Thanks so much Susan!
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #36
Hi Lada \ud83c\udfe1 Prkic, many people are not comfortable with sharing their personal stories and that's okay! We all differ and if we were the same, how boring would that be? Everyone has something to offer whether it's personal, educational, business related or other. That is what makes reading more interesting, variety. Thank you so much for your kind words, I truly appreciate them!
🐝 Fatima G. Williams
6 years ago #35
Harvey Lloyd
6 years ago #34
Susan 🐝 Rooks, The Grammar Goddess
6 years ago #33
Susan 🐝 Rooks, The Grammar Goddess
6 years ago #32
John Rylance
6 years ago #31
#31 The quote refers to what Oliver Cromwell is alleged to have said to the the artist who was to paint his picture. He was reported to have said "Paint me warts and all" certainly he was painted with several on his face.
Lada 🏡 Prkic
6 years ago #30
Lada 🏡 Prkic
6 years ago #29
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #28
You mom sounds like a wise woman Jerry Fletcher,! I will keep people updated for sure :) Looking forward to sharing more once I begin.
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #27
Thanks for taking the time to read my buzz Lupita \ud83d\udc1d Reyes! "Always practice what we preach," We should all do our best to! :)
Jerry Fletcher
6 years ago #26
Lupita 🐝 Reyes
6 years ago #25
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #24
Hi @john rylance, "It takes a brave person to let the world see them as Oliver Cromwell said "Warts and all". I never heard that quote before but it's very fitting. It's also true, not everyone is ready or willing to share and that's okay. All within due time, they say!
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #23
Such a good feeling Franci\ud83d\udc1dEugenia Hoffman, beBee Brand Ambassador because I was able to add that I suffer from Anxiety/Panic disorder within the context of my letter. I complain a lot about our very small town but I must say, they are setting a great example when it comes to not just keeping up with the latest programs and more but they may be a few steps ahead than other areas. When I get more info on what the Organization has planned, I will update with a buzz, some pretty interesting stuff! Thanks Franci :)
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #22
Hi Nathaniel Schooler \ud83d\udee9 Brand Marketer, thanks for your comment! I love how you are able to be your authentic self on live videos and the podcasts you do. You aren't afraid to crack jokes, you keep it so real and it makes watching them that much more enjoyable. As for those who will disappear, good riddance to them, right? They do us a favor in the long run. I love being associated with people who aren't afraid to show their vulnerable side and even laugh at themselves!
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #21
Thanks so much Gert Scholtz and honestly, I don't think I could ever shirk back on who I am, maybe to a fault lol. I remember sharing with a very dear neighbor of mine years ago that I saw a Doctor for Anxiety disorder and she said, "be careful who you tell, so many people will judge you and I don't to see you get hurt." She really meant well. She was like the Great Aunt I never had but her words were true back then. So, as a society and looking back, we have come a long way. Sadly, she passed about 15 years ago and I still miss her.
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #20
Hi Zacharias \ud83d\udc1d Voulgaris, thanks for your comment. You could be right, they are either suffering and possibly don't want to admit it to themselves because some people really feel it's a weakness and don't understand that it really is an illness or they just don't care to understand sadly. You wrote, "Authenticity is definitely a healthy way of embracing ourselves, without becoming discouraged by our shortcomings." Isn't that the truth and if we can embrace our shortcomings we can also continue to work on them!
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #19
Hi Ken Boddie, it's funny that you wrote my maiden name. I was going to add a bit of the story relating to my maiden name but I don't use it on here so I thought it would be mute. When the President of the board introduced himself to me, He said, "Hi, it's nice to meet you, my name is G. Fraser (left out first name on purpose). Anyhow, I was nervous and I said, "It's nice to meet you to, I'm Lisa Fraser." I haven't used my maiden name in years and it just popped out. I laughed, then corrected myself. Believe it or not, I haven't met anyone with the same spelling as my last name, ever... I guess I was caught off guard. It was a bimbo moment but funny. I appreciate your kind words and I really am looking forward to this, I need to be around people more. I've always been highly social. Thank goodness I don't have social anxiety, that has to be very tough.
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #18
"for some that is one steep mountain to climb." I could not agree more Geoff Hudson-Searle. My hope is that people realize there is a large network of others who do care, have been there or are still climbing that mountain who will embrace them. So many wonderful people who also offer great advice. First step in climbing that mountain, realize that it's a real illness and seek the proper medical care.
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #17
Thank YOU Javier \ud83d\udc1d beBee! If it had not been for certain people I originally met on Linkedin who encouraged me to keep writing, most of whom are are now using beBee, I'm not sure I would have gained the confidence I found hiding deep within. So many supportive people and I can't thank everyone enough, yourself included!
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #16
It sure is, thanks Robert Cormack!
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #15
Hi Ali \ud83d\udc1d Anani, Brand Ambassador @beBee you wrote, "We gain nothing from hiding problems. Keeping them in the dark shall benefit no one." That's always been my hopeful intention when writing about Mental illness with the hopes that others will seek answers if they are struggling. And the more we use our voices, I also hope that research will continue because they still have so much to learn. As a matter of fact over the past 7 years or so they've found not everyone is low on Serotonin but may be over producing Adrenaline (those with anxiety) which would explain why people like myself don't tolerate SSRI's or SNRI's because of the Serotonin uptake which makes me very ill. I even had genomic/DNA testing done and all drugs in those categories were in the extreme category- which means, do not take! Another thing I would suggest to people, have this testing done if they are sensitive to medications. At least now, anyone who looks at my chart will realize I am not a hypochondriac. Thanks for your wise words!
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #14
Hi Deb \ud83d\udc1d Helfrich! Thanks so much, I really am looking forward to this. Thanks to some tips you and a few others gave me, I was able to update my resume with confidence!
John Rylance
6 years ago #13
Gert Scholtz
6 years ago #12
Zacharias 🐝 Voulgaris
6 years ago #11
Ken Boddie
6 years ago #10
Geoff Hudson-Searle
6 years ago #9
Javier Cámara-Rica 🐝🇪🇸
6 years ago #8
Robert Cormack
6 years ago #7
Ali Anani
6 years ago #6
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #5
thank you so much for your words of wisdom and deep understanding. Your comment actually brought tears to my eyes. The tears were tears of relief and a bit of happiness knowing there are others who do understand for differing reasons. 20% of U.S. Citizens that have some sort of disability impairment is quite high... especially when one looks at the numbers, 60 million people! It's my hope that sooner than not mental illness is viewed as a illness just like diabetes, cancer, thyroid disease etc... And I agree, when we can focus on our abilities vs. disabilities we are that much further ahead. I think one key factor is the support one receives from their family and community. My family understands that this is real and they don't treat me any differently than they would if someone became ill from diseases that are recognized not stigmatized. I see the tides changing and this makes me very happy! Thanks again David!
David B. Grinberg
6 years ago #4
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #3
Savvy Raj, I honestly appreciate your kind words. Thank you SO much!
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #2
I agree, it is very hard to share Claire L Cardwell. I think the more people learn to be at ease with sharing and not feeling as though they have to make excuses, the more understanding society will gain in time. That's my hope! I know you've struggled too but look how you come back with a vigor. I'm proud of you and you are one talented woman. Never lose hope because it's easy to do. Thank you for your nice wishes and sending a big hug to you!
Lisa Gallagher
6 years ago #1
Thanks so much Puneet Srivastava. I was asked about this over a month ago and I stalled due to my lack of self esteem. Then a few people reminded me of all that I've accomplished and the idea that my Doctor had a lot of respect for me to even ask. So, I did my homework first and decided, WHY NOT?! I'm happy I was asked and I'm excited to get started. :)